The key to success is not to stop trying, and the courage to keep on
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If you’ve been through a breakup, rejection, or failure, it may have left you feeling discouraged and unsure of your next move. However, staying stuck in a negative space won’t get you anywhere. Instead, what you need is the courage to keep on trying and the wisdom to recognize when your efforts are no longer working. A key insight into achieving success is that maintaining a positive see-saw between giving up and continuing on requires integrity & perseverance.
Successful people know that there will be times when things don’t go according to plan. However, if they stick with their original intention and continue putting in the effort needed to make it work out for them in the end. Here are some key principles that can help improve your overall resilience so that you stay focused even when things aren’t going your way:
Focus on your goals and why you’re doing it
When you’re feeling down or blocked, it’s easy to get lost in your negative feelings. Instead, ask yourself why you’re doing what you’re doing. What are you trying to achieve by taking this course, getting this degree, joining that club, or whatever you’re trying to do? Why are you taking this approach? Why are you making this effort? This might seem like a trivial thing, but it can help you refocus your energy. If you’re trying to find a job, then focus on what you hope the job will be like, and why that’s important to you. If you’re trying to get into a certain club, focus on what you want to get out of it and what it might add to your life.
Set milestones and celebrate small wins
When you’re working towards a big goal, even if you’ve been trying your best to get there for months or even years, there’s still a chance that you’ll fail. However, the only way to avoid this outcome is to not set a goal in the first place. The best way to achieve success is to break your goal down into smaller pieces and set interim goals at every level. This is called “milestone-based” progress. For example, if your goal is to earn $100,000, then your first milestone should be to earn $50,000.
Maintaining a positive see-saw between giving up and continuing on requires integrity & perseverance. Successful people know that there will be times when things don’t go according to plan. However, if they stick with their original intention and continue putting in the effort needed to make it work out for them in the end.
Stay in touch with friends and loved ones
When things are going well, it’s easy to become disconnected and forget about your friends and loved ones. But, when you’re feeling down and blocked, it’s important to be mindful of keeping in touch with those who care about you. Simply being mindful to say “hi”, “I miss you”, or “I’m thinking about you” can go a long way in maintaining a positive relationship.
It’s also important to be mindful of the quality of your communications. It’s easy to get caught up in the negative emotions of a break-up or failure and forget about the positive aspects of your relationships. Therefore, it’s important to take a step back, clear your head, and make sure you’re maintaining a positive relationship with those who matter most to you.
Find a “practice buddy” to help you stick to your habits
As you progress through your goals, it’s important to find people who are willing to help you stay focused on your big picture. This could be a coach, a friend, your family, or even a professional therapist. Asking someone to be a “practice buddy” is like paying someone to help you. Rather than trying to figure things out on your own, you get someone to help you with the process of mapping out your goals, mapping out your timeline, and mapping out how you’re going to hold yourself accountable. Practice buddies are like accountability partners, but they’re also like study buddies who help you stay focused on your practice.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it
In addition to finding a “practice buddy”, you might find that you need to ask others for help when you’re feeling down. This might be a friend, a family member, a therapist, a mentor, or even a professional. Asking for help when you need it doesn’t make you a “faint-hearted” person. It means that you have the courage and integrity to accept help when you need it. Similarly, when you’re feeling down and out of balance, it’s important to remember that everyone has experienced a low point in their life.
Conclusion
Success is never as far away as we think, and we get farther if we walk than if we wait for someone to push us. In the end, it’s important to remember that no matter how much things seem to be going wrong, there will always be another chance to make things right. You just have to keep your head up, your chin up, and your heart open. If you follow these tips, with the Home Business Academy you’ll be on your way to achieving your goals. So, remember to keep pushing forward, and you’ll get there.
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